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Hi Gorgeous! 


You are absolutely, positively meant to be reading the words on this page if you are ready to commit to the empowering, self-healing journey of healing and transformation after experiencing a major breakup; one that was destructive and toxic. Do you find that since experiencing this breakup you feel unfulfilled, empty and passionless about your life?

  • An ambitious, successful, woman who has realized that enough is enough with attracting toxic relationships into your life.


  • Bending over backward to force a broken relationship to work even though you know this person isn't the right fit for you?


  • Now ready to authentically reclaim your self-worth, self-esteem, and ultimately your life with clarity, passion, and purpose, but are unsure on how to begin your healing and transformation journey? 


  • Ready to openly acknowledge to yourself and to the universe that you are ready to surrender and transform your life from the old to the new?

Experiencing a major relationship breakup is inevitable, and if you are not equipped with a holistic blueprint of how you are going to navigate that breakup, you run the risk of being stuck and trapped, living in the past instead of moving forward with your life. Ultimately, you risk living a life that doesn’t align with, nor reflect the essence of who you are as an Empowered Divine Feminine.



I can speak to such a life because I was once where you are; attempting to navigate one toxic relationship and breakup after the other. Living a life that was not in alignment with the true inner essence of who I am - a fabulous, fiery, earth goddess! However, trying to make my life work, save face, and keep my pride intactI have been disconnected from the Divine Feminine that resides within all of us. As a result, I eventually found myself at a crossroads after leaving yet again, another tumultuous, toxic, relationship from hell; an on-again and off-again 7-year, emotional roller-coaster that in the end left me feeling numb, empty, and without direction in my life.


After the final breakup from the covert narcissist I was dating, I decided that enough, was enough! And that it was up to me to start putting the pieces of my life back together, one step at a time. I wanted more for my life but was unsure, or rather fearful, of how I was going to take that leap of faith and make it happen...

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Start Here: Audio Training Series

If you are having a difficult time letting go of your toxic ex post-breakup and feel as though you can't move forward without speaking to your ex one last time to 'clear the air' then this 5-part audio training series is for you! Find out why...

Breakup to Level Up

A holistic, 3-month, 1:1 coaching program for women who are ready to move forward with their healing and tranformation journey post-breakup. Within this program you will elevate mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically. Enroll today!

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Individual intro coaching sessions for those women who are curious about working with Tonya privately, but are unsure of what to expect. Intro coaching sessions are available to help you begin the process of healing. Learn more...

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About Tonya J.

Tonya J. is the Founder + Breakup Coach of Loving Ahead. Tonya is also a thriving survivor of narcissistic abuse.


Devoted mother, daughter, and student of life. Find me under the dark night's moon manifesting my wildest dreams!

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